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stories
of their lives and deeds spread to others. As time passed, these
heroes achieved semi-divine and ultimately, in some
instances, divine status.
It is our experiences
with a person and ultimately our memories of them that give them
life and, ultimately, immortality. It is how we react to them and
to their works that create the hero, or villain that they ultimately
become. In life we remember the ups and downs, but rarely the middle
way - the day to day humdrum existence that is the majority of existence.
When we watch a film, we don't want to know every little thing that
a person does: despite the time it would take, it is boring. We know
that our heroes get sick, eat food, stub their toe and so on but
we don't need, or want, to know that as this will destroy the image
of the hero that we build up and, in that destruction, we feel betrayed
and lose something of ourselves.
The danger of putting anyone
or anything on a pedestal is that they often cannot live up to our expectations.
We all remember our first 'crush' whereby we ignore their failings |
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and problems until the bubble bursts
and we see them as they truly are. We place these heroes that we create above
us, making them semi-divine and hence making them beyond our reach. To find
that they have human failings or foibles can create a backlash whereby love
and adoration can turn to hate and derision. We see this often in relationship
breakups where, when the love goes, the small things that have always been
there but which have been glossed over or ignored because of the love, all
of a sudden become grating and lead to a hatred. Nothing has changed except
our view point.
When this hero is beyond the personal
space and is hero to millions, the fall can be harder, just as the worship
is higher. We find that fans will attack, sometimes brutally, any who don't
follow their beliefs or ideas about the person they worship. They feel the
need to defend them, no matter what they do, and will defend viciously. Then,
if the self-same fan is disappointed, they will turn on the object of their
idolatry with the same level - or increased level of hatred and disdain.
This is the price of immortality,
this is the price of hero |